Your first message is crucial ! You've found your ideal escort, but she's not responding? Or worse still... A cold response. You've probably crossed the line. Here are some tips to avoid ending up on a blacklist.
First of all, you should know that there are international and local blacklists where escorts can look up the names, email addresses, and phone numbers of suspicious clients. If you are on one of these lists, it will be difficult for you to find an escort, because her safety is paramount and she will simply refuse to meet you... Many escorts clearly state how they wish to be contacted: only by email, no phone calls, specific time slots, and mandatory information during the first contact. Ignoring these instructions shows that you are not following the rules and you may end up being blocked and on the blacklist.
Hello baby ! How are you ? Where are you ? Are you available ? How much ? You do ... ? With this kind of impersonal first contact and no real motivation, you will not receive any response because all the answers to your questions are already written in the ad or on the website. So take the time to read and write a complete message to establish a relationship of trust for future bookings.
What services do you offer? Do you provide ...? This question sounds strangely like a shopping list or a restaurant menu. This shows him that you haven't read his information. You are prioritizing your preferences over his way of doing things. I notice that [...] is not listed on your website. Do you offer this service, or should I look for another provider? This approach is more respectful. However, never bring up specific sexual acts in your first message. Never pressure her to provide services that she does not offer.
Will you give me a discount? I'll give you X euros for X hours ! Is that your final offer ? This kind of message really annoys escorts. If you require services at a different price, find a professional whose rates fit your budget rather than asking them to lower their prices. Negotiating a price that is already displayed is disrespectful...
Why do you need my information? Can I skip the verification process? Do you think an escort will meet anyone for money? False. This is a guarantee that you will meet a professional who takes safety very seriously... if you think that “she complicates things too much,” the problem is not her procedure, but your view that professional services do not require protocols...
Avoid transactional language that dehumanizes the exchange. Professional escort services remain human interactions. A respectful request includes a greeting, recognition of their professional skills, clear practical information, and sincere politeness. It is not a matter of being formal, but of showing that you understand that this is a mutual agreement between two people.
If an escort blocks you on WhatsApp or another app because of your behavior, avoid harassing her through other means of communication, as she will continue to ignore your messages. Don't waste your time and move on. Regarding local or international blacklists, it is impossible to be removed. You are blacklisted for life... So be careful to remain courteous and respectful at all times! For more tips, you can check out my other articles...